Whats going on? am i being played, or used for ?

ok this is confusing so plz try to stay with me. my bf of 14 months dumped me last friday. he was being rele mean to me. on sun. nite @ 2am i drove over there n he said you can only come over if u do what i say. so i did and we had his way. then he broke down and cried and said he was sorry and that he loved me and then it felt like we were dating the rest of the night. and then he said i just need to be patient with him, that were on a break, im single, and that he needs space. the other day, my ex ex bf asked if i would ever date him again, i said no and i said i wanted to find out if my current ex was with anyone. so my ex ex told me that his friend emmie had gotten a call a week ago from my new ex. saying he wanted to hang out. then my ex ex said that he had emmie call my new ex and that emmie said that my new ex said he wanted to get with her. i was mortified. but when i asked my new ex last night he said he doesnt want to be with nayone else. so whose lying?